"How Am I Going To Pay For This"

Does the above title or statement sound familiar? It's a statement that I knew well and it wasn't until recently that I finally understood the impact it has had on my life. What I didn't know was that this statement was ruling my life. You see before I learned about the Law of Attraction I would say this all the time, "How am I going to pay this." It became a habit and it was passed down to me by my parents. It was what they learned.

Look at it another way say your car just broke down and you are living from pay check to pay check what would you say? How am I going to pay for this? If your pet all of a sudden got really sick what would you say? How am I going to pay for this? If your furnace blew up what would you say? How am I going to pay for this?

You might be wondering why this is important or you might be thinking "so we all say that." This is important because this is a fear statement and fear attracts more fear (Like attracts like). It stops the flow of abundance into our lives. Though it is true you must know how you are going to pay for something but attaching the fear and the worry with it stops the Law of Attraction from working in your favour. One of the steps to Law of Attraction is not to worry or concern yourself with "How" things are going to happen, just believe they will. You want the flow of abundance into your life and the above statement will stop it cold.

Now how do you go about changing this, the first thing is to release the thought pattern that created it and know that once the abundance flows “how you are going to pay for it” will take care of itself.  Then release the fear and the worry and know that you are taken care of.  Next ask whatever your belief system is whether it is God, the Source, Universe, Goddess, etc… ask them to intervene on your behalf and help you find a way to pay for this bill.  Lastly believe that things will work out.  Once you get into the habit of doing this then the old habit of fear and worry will fade.  To help you with this you can use E.F.T. (Emotional Freedom Technique or Tapping) it will help you overcome and release the emotions behind this issue. 

The Magic Box

This is ‘The Magic Box’ and it is used to manifest what you want in life whether it be something physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual. 

How to use it is:

Step 1.  Find a box, it can be any size; you can decorate it or leave it just the way it is. 

Step 2.  Write a letter or a sentence describing in detail what you want in all areas of your life.  For example:  family, finances, friends, work housing, your mental, physical, emotional and spiritual state.  This is written as if you have already received it.  I.e. “Thank you so much for my beautiful red 1960 corvette car.  I love it to pieces and I can now participate fully at the car shows,” or “I am so happy and grateful that I have so much confidence in whatever I choose to do; I feel I can do anything.”  This box is more than just attracting physical items; it’s about helping you grow on every level.

Step 3.  Find a stone (any stone that you get a good vibe from) and place it inside the box with your letter.

Step. 4.  Every day or few days touch the box and give thanks (to the universe, God, Source, whatever your beliefs are) for receiving what you want even though you may not have received it yet. 

Step. 5. Believe you have received it and feel it in your body as though you have.

***Gratitude is the quickest way in receiving anything you want in life.  This is a very important step for The Magic Box to work.

Self talk is what we say to ourselves about ourselves or others. It’s our thinking that goes on in our heads and eventually comes out of our mouths.  What we say to ourselves on a daily basis affects our lives.  To give you an example of what I mean, say if you made a mistake and find that mistake and then say to yourself, "oh that was just silly of me John Doe."  By saying that, is in itself an affirmation. Self talk is so important because what we say to ourselves is an affirmation.  Affirmations are things we affirm to ourselves daily.  So if you say "I can't do that" and say that on a regular basis you won't be able to do anything. 

What you can do about it is, If you catch yourself making negative statements about yourself then say a positive statement to counteract the negative one.  As well as say that positive statement as many times daily as possible until it is engrained in your head and you no longer say the negative one. 

Forgiveness

Forgiveness is one of the key’s to life’s success.  When you carry grudges, anger and resentment around with you, that not only effects how you feel it effects how you live your life.  For example, who wants to be around someone who is constantly angry and/or negative?  I know I don’t, but how is this one of the keys to life success?  The previous question sums it up “Who wants’ to around someone who is constantly angry and/or negative?”

If you want to attract more good into your life being more positive is how you do it.  However not being able to let go and release the past will hold you back. 

Forgiveness is hard to do; it’s not easy to let it go, especially if we feel that if we do forgive them that we are saying that it’s okay what they did.  But this is not how it works.  When we forgive we release us not them, you do not do it for the other party involved you do it for yourself.  They don’t even need to know that you forgave them.  It’s not about that, it’s about releasing your past so you can live in the present and move forward in the future.  

This is the same for grief.  The grieving process can take as much time or more than the forgiveness process. But each is very important to your health. 

Below I have included some different techniques to help you with the forgiveness and grieving process; also as a side note, the forgiveness and grief process are usually intertwined because in some cases we lose a friend or a relative:

1.    EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique).  This is a tapping process, where you tap your acupuncture points while going through your feelings regarding the issue at hand.

2. Ho’oponopono Technique.  This is a Hawaiian prayer used for forgiveness and healing.  There has been very positive response using this prayer.
3. Meditation.  There are very specific meditations for grieving and forgiveness issues.
4. Crystal healing.  Crystals healing can be a great help with releasing pined up emotions. 
5. The Healing Codes.  This is another technique that you can use to help you in forgiveness and with grief issues.
6. Affirmations.  This is good to help do release work and can be applied to any of the above techniques.